My mom makes the most amazing Christmas cake in the world; it’s been a tradition in our family for as long as I can remember.

First, she mixes up a light, fluffy, vanilla cake mix, pours it into the pans and then pops it in the oven. After it’s been baked, she stacks the cake in three layers with whipped cream spread generously between each layer. She then pours on red and green Jell-O, which gets soaked up inside the cake. Next, whipped cream is smothered all the way around for frosting. And finally, she garnishes it with red and green sprinkles. A few red and green-striped candy canes are stuck in the top as the finishing touch, and off it goes to the refrigerator so it can be served chilled later.

Now let me tell you, as a health/lean-conscious person, I have a lot of discipline. But when that moist, delicious, red and green, Jell-O- filled, whipped-cream covered cake is sitting on the table in front of me on December 25th, it takes every ounce of my willpower to keep from calling it a "very high carb day" and devouring numerous very large slices.

Despite the temptation, I don’t "pig out" nor do I deprive myself. Instead, I’m content with eating my single piece, savoring every mouthwatering bite, all the while repeating my mantra, "nothing tastes as good as being ripped feels."

The next day, on December 26th, I’m on the bike or Stairmaster at the crack of dawn, followed by six perfect meals of lean protein and complex carbohydrate - just like every other day of the year.

A week later, on December 31st, I usually go out for a nice dinner (very naughty food, I must admit), and then we toast champagne to the New Year at midnight. I’m in bed at a reasonable hour shortly thereafter.

Unless it’s a scheduled day of rest on New Years day, I’m not groggy and hung over like many of my friends are. I’m in the gym squatting, bench pressing, curling, or "stairmastering" just like I usually am.

And here’s the point: You can and should enjoy the holidays. You can enjoy being with family and going out with friends. You can go to holiday parties and have fun. You can enjoy a few "naughty" meals. You can have some cake and a glass or two of champagne. There’s no reason why you can’t enjoy yourself AND stay healthy, lean and fit through the holidays. All it takes is some planning, some goal-setting and little dose of old-fashioned discipline.

I’d like to share with you 10 ways that you can follow your diet and stay in great shape over the holidays without turning into a miserable Scrooge. If you follow this advice, then you’ll be one of the proud few with a New Year’s resolution to be the best you’ve ever been in 2002, instead of one of the guilt-ridden many who must resolve to reclaim what they lost in 2001.

1. Expect to stay on your program over the holidays.
2. Plan all your workouts in advance.
3. Set some compelling training and fitness goals over the holiday period.
4. Give yourself permission to have "cheat days" - and schedule them in.
5. If you fall off the wagon, get right back on it.
6. Maintain your consistent eating schedule.
7. Don’t lose your consistency or your momentum.
8. Control your portion sizes.
9. Don’t buy into the low standards and expectations of others.
10. If you drink, enjoy alcohol in moderation.

This is a special time of the year; you can and should enjoy it. However, taking a six-week "vacation" from the gym doesn’t make any sense - ever. There’s no reason to let your training and nutrition program spoil your holidays, but there’s also no reason to let your holidays spoil your training and nutrition program either!